Monday, August 15, 2016

Breathe In, Breathe Out...


Yoga and meditation are practices that have been around for thousands of years. These practices can help reduce stress and bring you into a more present focused state of mind. Many people today in our society are bombarded with busyness and technology and we don’t take time to shut down and relax. Even when we think we are relaxing… our minds are still going and going and going like the energizer bunny. Many “veg out” by watching television or looking at media following our long work days. This type of “vegging out” however does not allow our mind to actually rest. Mindfulness through yoga and meditation can be an important means to regain vitality and energy.

Like many others, I have had bouts of stress and mild anxiety in my life. I have found that yoga and meditation practice help to ground me and relieve this stress. I wanted to share these practices and how they have helped me. These practices relieve the stress, but also bring me to a point of increased clarity about the world around me. I feel a sense of control and difference in my response to the world as I become more engaged with the present moment and less worried about the past or what may happen in the future.

Scientific research has found both yoga and meditation to have substantial benefits including:
  • ·         Recent studies in people with chronic low-back pain suggest that a carefully adapted set of yoga poses may help reduce pain and improve function.
  • ·         Other studies suggest that practicing yoga may reduce heart rate, blood pressure, anxiety, or depression.
  • ·         Mindfulness meditation activates the ‘rest and digest’ part of our nervous system helping with stress management.
  • ·         According to research, meditation promotes ‘divergent thinking’, a type of thinking that allows many new ideas to be generated. (This is one of my favorites! Totally awesome!)
  • ·         Neuroscientists found after just 11 hours of meditation practitioners had structural changes in the part of the brain involved in monitoring our focus and self-control.
  • ·         Research indicates that relationships benefit from meditation. Those who meditate experience improved communication in relationships. In addition, those in marital partnerships experience overall improved quality of their relationship.

Sources: National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health Website: https://nccih.nih.gove/health/yoga/introduction.htm ;
Headspace Treat Your Head right Website: https://www.headspace.com/science



Yoga

Yoga focuses on movement, breath and awareness of the present moment. There are many different routines that focus on different elements such as stretching, balance, aerobic activity, breathing, or often a combination of these elements.

It does not take an extensive dedication of time to introduce a yoga practice into your routine. I use Gaiam’s Relax and Restore Yoga DVD for my regular practice. The 24 minute yoga session on this DVD focuses primarily on basic yoga poses that allow for mindfulness of the whole body and breathing. I practice 3-5 times a week. You can modify your own yoga practice to your own individual needs and routine.


Meditation

Have you ever tried to meditate? It can be quite uncomfortable and difficult to sit and do nothing. It is so rare to do this in our world today.  It is challenging to empty our minds that are so full of thoughts, worries, or obligations. You don’t need to do a long meditation to get the benefits of meditation, 5-10 minutes can be plenty to center yourself (especially when you are first starting as 5 minutes may feel like an eternity.) ;-) You can increase the length of meditation in time, if you want.There are many different versions of meditation. Meditation can be tailored to your individual needs or personal preferences.

Olivia H. Miller wrote a book called Essential Yoga that I use as a reference guide for both yoga asanas, breathing, and meditation techniques. She includes a group of example meditations in her book. I am going to share one example below. I share this example because I think this a good meditation for beginners. It’s often difficult to clear your mind completely and often times thoughts may pop in your head. This is natural and just let them go as easily as you can. This example meditation helps by introducing both a visual and verbal mantra to use as a focal point. I often set a timer and then once my timer goes off that is the indication that the meditation is over. I try to choose an alarm that is more calming, so that it is not jarring if I am in a deeper meditative state.

Meditation of Connection

  • ·         Imagine an awe-inspiring natural place. It can be a real place you have been or a place that you have conjured in your imagination.
  • ·         Go to this place and look around. What do you see? What do you hear? Notice the details about your natural, beautiful space.
  • ·         Breathe deeply in your special place.
  • ·         Inhale and repeat silently: I stand in awe of the beauty and grace.
  • ·         Exhale and repeat silently: That is the natural world.
  • ·         Inhale and say silently: Beauty and grace.
  • ·         Exhale and say silently: Natural world.
  • ·         Continue in this repetitive cycle focusing on your natural scene and the meditation mantra: Inhale- beauty and grace, exhale natural world

          Adapted from Essential Yoga by Olivia H. Miller

Relax

Busyness leave me
Let stillness rejuvenate
May I leave relaxed

I encourage you to try yoga or meditation techniques. Feel free to ask me any questions you may have about these practices. Below is an interesting TED talk on the importance of meditation with mindfulness expert, Andy Puddicombe. Enjoy & Namaste!




Saturday, February 27, 2016

Bigger is Better Culture


I love the tiny house movement. I mean it borders on obsession! I’ve been binge watching tiny house shows on HGTV and recently watched Tiny on Netflix. I couldn’t figure out for the longest time why I loved it so much. One of my phobias is claustrophobia, so you think I would be adverse to small spaces. I lived in a small house growing up and I was very happy growing up there. We always lived in a pleasant cozy space. However, I dreamed of living in a big Victorian with those beautiful stairs (you know the ones I’m talking about). I do enjoy tiny sized furniture and spaces. I think it is quite adorable and inventive how they are able to utilize the small space. I’ve discovered my tiny house obsession has a bit more depth and meaning than simply loving miniature sized furniture.

I had my “A-HA!” moment as to why I am so enamored with tiny houses and this movement after watching the documentary Tiny. Drum roll please…. BECAUSE bigger is NOT better!! America and our consumerism; we always want to keep up with the ‘Joneses’. Frankly, this has resulted in everything getting bigger and bigger and BIGGER… and completely ridiculous!! It’s really getting out of control and crazy! How much “stuff” and space do we really need? Who are the Joneses anyway? The illusion of the ‘Joneses’ is really our own insecurities that if we don’t have enough and in turn that we, ourselves, aren’t good enough. This is a very flawed perception.  Therefore, it is no surprise that in this bigger is better culture that the tiny house movement has gained so much momentum. The tiny house movement both challenges and attempts to thwart the notion that bigger is indeed better.  

Currently, we have ridiculously sized homes, stores, churches…. Why? By embracing this mentality, we’ve lost small mom and pop stores, depleted local businesses, drained people’s finances, and blocked many from gaining financial stability and freedom. This type of financial bondage restricts our ability to live with more depth and explore the world.

As Forest Gump would put it, “Momma said there’s only so much fortune a man really needs and the rest is for showing off.”

We are totally showing off and in the process decreasing our quality of life.

For me, I’d willingly trade my Victorian staircase … for more quality time, experiences, and depth of life… seems like a fair trade off.

Is there more to the tiny house movement than just tiny houses? You bet! Many are reaching into their lives and exploring what is really important to them. In turn, I too have discovered that my tiny house obsession has much deeper roots and it really hit the core of what I determine is valuable in my life.

So to conclude: Bigger is not better. Stop showing off, America!

Check out the square footage of houses around the world in this infographic below: 

                                                       Source: http://www.elledecor.com/life-culture/fun-at-home/
                                                                      news/a7654/house-sizes-around-the-world/  August 26, 2015
 

Tuesday, February 9, 2016

INFJ Musings

Image source: basicallybeyondbasic.com

Today, I want to discuss my personality type, INFJ and how it relates to me. Here is a list of tidbits about me that I think relate to my MBTI personality type and may resonate with other INFJ’s:

·         Highly sensitive: I feel that I am highly sensitive. I have difficulty watching violent television or movies. I avoid it and it is very difficult for me to handle.
·         Prominent interests in the arts and humanities, especially writing. I really enjoy books of all kinds, music, philosophy, dance, theatre, crafting, and painting.
·         I need my space and time to recharge alone. If I am in a social situation for too long it becomes draining and I feel myself becoming disengaged.
·         I love nature, especially trees and waterfalls. My favorite tree is the weeping willow.
·         I can be intense sometimes, I am a perfectionist and expect a lot from myself.
·         I really love being around people and helping people. I enjoy my very close relationships with my family and friends.
·         I like to plan & make lists, like this one ;-).
·         I feel like I have one true purpose in life and my goal in life is to figure out that purpose and let that seep into everything that I do.
·         I value education, but don’t necessarily agree with the current structure and ideas in some of our educational institutions.
·         I think abstractly and have an easy time thinking, reading, and talking about theoretical ideas.
·         I like science and I’m really into ideas about physics right now.
·         I have strong protective instincts, especially when it comes to my friends and family. I’ve had these instincts since I was a small child. I hate to see innocent or vulnerable people bullied.
·         I have difficulty speaking loudly.
·         I can appear very calm and reserved on the surface, when that may not necessary be the case.
·         I have difficulty with spatial awareness. I hate parallel parking and have a very difficult time judging distance.
·         Sometimes I am in my own head so much that I don’t notice things in the physical world. I am not as observant of details as some others and I can go for a long time without noticing physical things in my every day environment.
·         I am very romantic and idealistic.
·         I hate conflict and try to avoid it like the plague. If it is a conflict that I am not directly involved in then I can act as a peacemaker/mediator and tend to be very good in this role at helping others resolve their conflicts.
·         I’m a great listener and people often confide in me.
·         I’m very reflective.